08 May What Alison Armstrong taught me about men that transformed my life!
Alison Armstrong and Louann Brizendine are two of my Sheros! They both contributed to the way I am able to communicate and be with a man to feel heard, get my needs met, and be loved on a whole new level.
If you want to be seen by, heard by, and provided for from a man then I have some tips that will have you transforming your life and relationships with men as well.
There is actually science between the differences of the female brain and the male brain.
Men also want to be noticed for who they are.
3 top things that I discovered that made me the amazing listener that I am today:
- He’s gonna listen to you because you’re gonna give him a chance to be able to answer you.
- How to receive and get what you want – men respond to to magical words are “provide” and “hero”
Example: “Would you provide this for me?”
“You’re my hero”
It comes from a desire to be able to “provide” and “protect.”
3. Really learn what it is that you can do in the form of being open to receive what he does provide for you.
One of the most magical parts in being in a relationship with men, or even while you’re dating men – is to listen and to give your full attention, and to know what to ask what you want and know how to appreciate what you’re being provided for.
If you can get those things done, you’re gonna win. You’re gonna have a lot of wins.
Check out the books of Alison Armstrong and Louann Brizendine over at Amazon!